For James Yan, it's a microwave life -- a whole night of dating in just an hour or so. He shows us the ins and outs of speed dating at Fishbowl Events.

What do you look for in the perfect girl?

Nobody is perfect. Every girl has her own personality, her own traits. If I meet a girl and we start dating, I think we need to appreciate each other's good points, and find a way to deal with each other's faults. We need to find a way to adapt to them, or change them.

Have you found success at Fishbowl's dating events?

Yes, I have.

What happens at these speed dating events?

Each couple gets six minutes to talk to each other. At the end of the six minutes, everyone switches partners, and you have another six minutes to get to know someone new. Later on, you can tell the organizers what you think about the people you've met.

How often do you go?

I try to attend every event, but sometimes I'm too busy to go.

When you sit down with a new partner, what's your opening line?

I ask her what her good points are.

What's important to think about in getting to know someone new?

You are selling yourself, but are also looking for another person, so you need to know how to play the role of a customer and salesman at the same time.

Would you recommend speed dating to your single friends?

Absolutely, yes. I've already done so. I've seen so many people complain about how hard it is to find a boyfriend or girlfriend, or how hard it is to just meet new people and have fun. Speed dating gives you a chance to meet 15 potential girlfriends or boyfriends in just two hours. No nightclub, party or website compares to it!

What if someone is shy?

This is a good way to get over being shy!

DETAILS

What: Speed Dating

Where: Check the website for dates and times, www.fishbowlevents.com